
We now have the technology and the scientific know how to adjust women’s buttocks so that they are larger, rounder and fuller. We additionally can thicken the lips. Many women have taken advantage of these opportunities and “enhanced” themselves. We even have a society that is seemingly changing its views of the female anatomy in terms of what is socially perceived to be attractive. Specifically, more Americans in general are embracing curvaceous figures and full lips. This is particularly evident in the acceptance of people such as Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian. I have many concerns regarding this phenomenon, but I will try to be brief.
What bothers me so is that women of color have always been curvy. Historically, my sisters have been more inclined to possess fuller lips. However, these same features for which my sisters have been historically stigmatized and caricatured are now projected by the media to be the most attractive. Really?
What about the centuries of cartoons and propaganda that have been created to negatively portray the natural physical characteristics of my sisters? Will there be an apology made for the attempts to publicly shame them for the attributes that Mother Nature blessed them with? Will Sarah Baartman’s story (The Hottentot Venus) be told completely and internationally with sympathy, compassion and shame for how she was exploited? Will her family, descendants or village from which she was birthed be reimbursed or provided any type of compensatory benefits?
Oh, I get it. When these features that I speak about were primarily possessed by those who were not members of the dominant culture, those in power did all they could to diminish the perceived beauty of such features. We could not allow ourselves to acknowledge that those that the media has portrayed as inferior and descended from animals possessed appearances that some would label ideal. That would smell of hypocrisy, so the lie had to be perpetuated regardless of the damage it had on the collective self-esteem and self-image of African women. Now that we believe that we can adjust a female’s body and lips so that all may be “bootylicious” and have “juicy” lips, the media has done a 180 as far as how the female anatomy is presented. It must be nice to have such short memories.
Well, let me say this. My sisters have always been beautiful. I have always thought so, and that has not changed.
Let us not judge ourselves by the standards of beauty presented to us by the media because they have ulterior motives, and their standards change according often to what is financially beneficial to a privileged few. (More to come later……)
Signed,
The Invisible Man
